Hello Girlies....

My friend and I got into a debate .. over a bottle wine ( like you do) ,, over what do you consider Cheating?

We got into the perils of texting,, sexting.. facebook and just plain ole cheating..

To me.. if my BF was to chat to someone on FB .. intimatly,, That is cheaing,., texting someone..(you know the kind of text I mean) That is cheating to me as it’s intimate.

To her,,, Them things is ok,, Its if he meets up with the person and does the dirty deed.. or other dirty deeds..

To me.. If my BF was texting someone in that way I would be devastated as thats sharing needs and wants that he should be sharing with me,,,
But don’t get me wrong,, if he was to go out and do the dirty deed.. I would kill him,, revive him and kill hime all over again..
But I just wondered what the ladies of IVenus’s take on this debate is??

I agree with you Hailshimmer, thinking of cheating is cheating......

yes im with you both cheating is cheating so why all the debate it reminds me of confession bad thoughts etc

Agree with you both. I wonder has your friend been in the situation where her boyfriend was text-cheating?

Yeah i think so too. I don’t know if she has. I know an ex of hers met his now wife off the internet. Left her and the kids for her Married the girl 6 months later.it was just something we got talking about. Think started with the Cheryl Cole thing. We have different views on it. Just wondered what you ladies though about it.

back from holidays and just catching up on forums.  i can relate to this one! had a boyfriend once who i suspected was at this sort of thing.  would always keep his phone held under the table when reading texts, so obvious!!